Thursday, May 9, 2013

Book Review : : The Triumph of John and Betty Stam



The Triumph of John and Betty Stam was a very challenging, moving and encouraging book. John and Betty Stam were missionaries to China during the time of the Chinese Civil War while Communists were in control. Betty went over to China in 1931 and two years later in 1933 John also went over to China. They were married on October 25, 1933 and on September 11, 1934 their little daughter was born, Helen Priscilla Stam. On December 8, 1934 while still both in their late 20's they were both executed by the communists. Miraculously their little daughter Helen was rescued by a Chinese Pastor.

This is such a wonderful book. It shows why Betty and John went over to China. It tells about their life beforehand and how they were able to face everything.

One lady, when she heard of of the execution, said, "Oh, why did they go there?" Mr. Stam answered, "Because the Love of Christ constrained them. We were glad to see them go and would gladly have let them go again, because we look not at the things that are seen. They were not after money or comfort but after souls."

John and Betty Stam knew that this life is not about comfort and happiness for the flesh but that they needed to serve the Lord. They knew that their life was not their own. There is a cost to following Christ and they knew that. Because of their supreme sacrifice God used it to inspire others to follow Him in the same way. When the world heard of the execution they said "What a waste." But was it really a waste? God does not waste his people. He uses us for his glory and he used the Stam's for his glory. It is not a waste to use our life for our glory and the Stam's sacrifice was not a waste.

Below is a poem written by Betty at the age of 18:
Lord, I give up all my own plans and purposes,
All my own desires and hopes,
And accept Thy will for my life.
I give myself, my life, my all
Utterly to Thee to be Thine forever.
Fill me and seal me with Thy Holy Spirit.
Use me as Thou wilt, send me where Thou wilt.
And work out Thy whole will in my life, at any cost,
Now and forever.


John included this poem in a letter to his father. Though he did not write the poem it still expresses his thoughts:

Afraid?
Afraid?  Of what?
To feel the spirit’s glad release?
To pass from pain to perfect peace,
The strife and strain of life to cease?
Afraid—of that?
Afraid?  Of what?
Afraid to see the Savior’s face,
To hear His welcome, and to trace
The glory gleam from wounds of grace?
Afraid—of that?
Afraid?  Of what?
A flash—a crash—a pierced heart;
Darkness—Light—O Heaven’s art?
A wound of His a counterpart!
Afraid?—of that?
Afraid?  Of what?
To do by death what life could not—
Baptize with blood a stony plot,
Till souls shall blossom from the spot?
Afraid?—of that?

Below are some quotes of John and Betty Stam's:


“I think, sometimes, we excuse ourselves when we fail, because we realize that the flesh is weak. If we could really see sin as God sees it, what a fight would be put up!” ~ John Stam ~

"It’s as clear as daylight to me that the only worthwhile life is one of unconditional surrender to God’s will, and of living in His way, trusting His love and guidance.” ~ Betty Scott Stam ~

“When we consecrate ourselves to God, we think we are making a great sacrifice, and doing lots for Him, when really we are only letting go some little, bitsie trinkets we have been grabbing and when our hands are empty, He fills them full of His treasures.” ~Betty Scott Stam~

“We do not know where they (the soldiers) are going, but we are going to Heaven.” ~ John Stam ~
This book was very moving and it brought tears to my eyes but it was also eye opening. I would highly recommend this book.

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Update on Bethany #3

I just had to post again and let you all know some great news. The doctor told us she wouldn't be able to smile for a while but she is actually starting to smile again!!!! Praise the Lord!!!!!!

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Update on Bethany #2

Bethany is now home! Also she doesn't really have any pain and she is not having nausea! Praise the Lord! Thank you so much for all your prayers and sweet comments. They are greatly appreciated.

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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Update on Bethany #1

Bethany had a rough night. She can't keep her liquid medicine down and when she drinks anything she gets an upset stomach. Nausea is being a big problem right now.  She will not be allowed to come home until she can keep her liquid medicine down. This is very troubling to Bethany so please continue praying.

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Monday, May 6, 2013

Bethany's Surgery

Bethany's jaw surgery went well this morning and she is now in the recovery room. Please be praying for her and for all of us. Thanks.

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Saturday, May 4, 2013

I was Awarded and Tagged!

Liebster-Award



I was awarded the Liebster award by Jessica. Thank you Jessica!


What is a Liebster Award?
The Liebster Award is an award given to rising bloggers who have less than 200 followers. Liebster is German and means sweetest, kindest, nicest, dearest, beloved, lovely, kind, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing, and welcome.
Thank You...
I want to thank Jessica for awarding me the Liebster award. I really enjoy reading your blog, Jessica. Press on!
Award Rules:
1. You must thank the person who nominated you.
2. Answer the 11 questions posed by your nominator
3. Pass on the award to 11 new recipients
4. Pose 11 new questions to your bloggers

Now to answer the questions posed by my nominators…

1. What holiday do you cook/bake the most food? Probably Thanksgiving
2. Cookies or Cupcakes? Cookies
3. What is a family recipe that is passed down through generations? Um...I can't think of any right now
4. What is your favorite food to cook/eat? Chicken Enchiladas
5. What is your favorite kitchen tool that you absolutely can't do without? I really like our big mixer
6. When did you start your blog? I started it in November 2010
7. What's your favorite part about the Oreo cookies, the cookie or the cream? The cream
8. Ever had a birthday without a cake? Yes
9. Are you a travel bug? Though I don't travel much I really enjoy it
10. Sweet or Salty? Sweet
11. On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you like cinnamon? 4

I Award:

Eden @ Eden's Evaluations
Elanee @ Elanee's Endeavors
Lauren @ Lulu Belle's Place
Desiree @ Ransomed Princess
Elizabeth @ Joyful Jewels 4 Jesus
Annie @ Daughter of His Grace
Lily @ Lily In His Field
Kaylee @ Written On My Heart
Payton @ Dwelling in the Secret Place
Marie @ Radiant Sunshine 4 Him
Moss Family @ Moss Farm

11 Questions to Those I Award:

1. What is your favorite Bible Verse and why?
2. What is your favorite month and why?
3. Do you like email or letters, why?
4. What is your favorite time in history?
5. Stripes or polka dots?
6. What is your favorite holiday and why?
7. Turkey or Ham?
8. What is your favorite kind of ice cream?
9. When did you start blogging?
10. What is your favorite store to go to?
11. What is your favorite type of weather?

I was tagged by Rachel @ Jewels of Jesus

The Rules:
*Tell 10 random things about yourself or 10 favorite Bible Verses
*Tag 10 people (and make sure they know!)

10 random things about me
1. I am really interested in family history...are any of you, my readers, interested in it as well?
2. I am very introvert
3. I am an avid reader
4. I so like Scotland and Ireland...though I have never been there before :D
5. Piano is the instrument I play and I have been playing since I was 5
6. I really enjoy writing but I am not good at it
7. Missionary biographies are what I have been reading a lot recently...just finished "The Triumph of John and Betty Stam." Great book!
8. I enjoy learning about history...it is just so fascinating!
9. I might...just might be getting my permit in July!!!!
10. Bible Bee is what I do for 6 months of the year and it is amazing!!!!!! 

Well...I am going to break the rules...
Instead of awarding 10 different people I would really like if you, my readers would tell me 10 random things or 10 favorite passages of Scripture in a comment.

Thank you once again Jessica and Rachel!

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